Feb 11, 2010

Ayla's Story


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(Picture taken on March 24, 2008, the day of her official JRA Diagnosis)


This week at Kelly's Korner is "Show us your ministry week". Although I do not have a ministry, I do have a story to tell. I have also had a few new followers lately, so I would love to take this opportunity to tell "Ayla's Story". Okay, I just found out that this is not until next week at Kelly's Korner.... Leave it to me to get the dates mixed up. Oh well, I will just leave this up and link to it again next week!



Not too many people know that "Kids can get Arthritis Too". This is my daughter Ayla's story of her diagnosis and struggles with Juvenile Rhuematoid Arthritis at the age of 18 months. I am writing her story to raise awareness of this disease and to encourage others that are affected by this disease. I know how hard and frustrating it can be, so when you are feeling down, please think of my little angel Ayla and I hope she will brighten your day! She is fighting hard to beat this disease, and so can you!



It all started in February 2008 when I noticed that Ayla was limping and crying in the mornings when she woke up. At first it was just a little , I really did not think anything of it, I just figured she was still tired and wanted to be held. Of course now looking back, I can see how all of her signs and symptoms led to the diagnosis of JRA (Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis). Ayla was also crying more than normal in the mornings but that really did not phase me too much because Ayla has always cried a lot. My husband always said, "I think she cries more than the average child". I can remember back to when she was 14 months, she cried ALL OF THE TIME. We even took her to the Dr. a couple of times thinking she may have had ear infections. There were many nights that she would wake up crying for no reason, so we thought. Of course there was never any medical reason for her crying, so we just thought maybe she was teething and that was that. I think now that was probably around the time when her JRA started. Around 17 months is when the limping began. I mentioned it to my husband a couple of times but by evening she would be walking and running without a problem. My husband suggested that maybe she was just having a hard time walking on the hard wood floors in the morning, so I thought that sounded reasonable enough. At around the same time, I noticed that every once in a while when I picked Ayla up to put her on my lap she would just start sobbing. I could not for the life of me figure out why because after all she was sitting on my lap. It was frustrating because I had no idea what was going on. I know now that if I picked her up a certain way and it twisted her knee or pulled her elbow, that she was in pain and would start crying. She would also cry if she barely fell down, I even made a comment to my husband saying that when she falls down you would think that she fractured a bone or something not knowing that once again she was in agonizing pain from her arthritis. It was not until early March one Saturday morning that Ayla was limping around in her diaper and my husband and I were sitting on the floor watching her limp and at the same time we both noticed that her right knee was extremely swollen. Her knee was hot to touch and she could not straighten it out. It was at that moment that we both knew something else was going on. I will never forget that moment for as long as I live. My husband and I are both in the medical field so a thousand things went through our mind as to what could be wrong with her.We took Ayla to the hospital for an x-ray that same Saturday. To our relief there were no tumors so that eased the stress a little. My husband took Ayla on Monday morning to see the orthopedic doctor. After an exam and hearing her history, he suggested that maybe she had Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis and he ordered some lab work. We then started her on Ibuprofen for the inflammation and pain. When my husband came home, he told me what the doctor had said, and my heart just sank. He assured me that if she did have JRA, she had the mild type because only one joint was affected and that she would eventually outgrow it. My husband went back to work and I proceeded to go to the computer and read everything I could about JRA. This was probably not the best thing to do because there are so many types of JRA and they all have different treatments and different outcomes. I just cried and wished that I could trade places with her. It just did not seem fair that an 18 month old baby had to be faced with this horrible condition. It seemed like for the next couple of weeks we were in denial. I think we expected the swelling to go down thinking that maybe she just had a bad fall and everything was going to be okay and go back to normal. Sadly, this was not the case and after we saw our pediatrician, she suggested that we see a pediatric rheumatologist to see if indeed this is what was wrong with Ayla .My husband and I were devastated and we started calling around to see who would see Ayla. We found out that were we live, there are not any rhuematology doctors that specialize in pediatrics, so we were referred to a Children's Hospital in Columbus Ohio.

Our first appointment in Columbus was on March 24th 2008. We saw the doctor there and after looking at Ayla, he confirmed that she did have JRA and that not only was it in her right knee, it was also in her right elbow. After he told us that her elbow was affected, I remembered that in the mornings she would cry when I put her clothes on. I never even thought about her elbow being involved. Of course I felt stupid then for not realizing that her arm was hurting when she had to straighten it out to put her shirt on. She was diagnosed with pauciarticular JRA and he said that she has a great chance for a full recovery. He said that she will hopefully outgrow this at some point and that it may never come back. This was very reassuring to hear but the only problem was he did not know how long she would initially have it before going into remission. It could be one year, it could be five years. He decided to put her on naproxen twice a day and wanted us to start her in physical therapy once a week. He also wanted her to wear a leg splint at night while she was sleeping. We were to see him again in six weeks for another check up and to see if she was showing any improvement with the naproxen and P.T.

By June of 2008 at 22 months, Ayla's right ankle also became swollen. She was still limping and at her worse she was dragging her leg behind her when walking. She was not able to run and play like most children her age. It was at this time that we decided she needed joint injections. Under conscious sedation, she had her right knee, right ankle and right elbow injected with a steroid. This helped tremendously, the inflammation in her right knee went down and she was no longer limping. Her ankle and elbow continued to bother her.

By August of 2008, Ayla's arthritis started affecting her neck. We noticed that her neck was stiff and she was having trouble turning it to the right or looking up. We actually noticed it right when we were leaving for vacation. I remember thinking how "frail" she was, especially at almost two years old. She should have been full of energy!At this point, the Dr. suggested that we start her on Methotrexate. We were devastated because this is a very aggressive chemo drug with a potential of bad side effects. We went back and fourth about starting her on this medicine, we were torn and didn't know what to do. We decided to wait it out a little while longer.

In October of 2008 we had discovered that Ayla's fingers and toes were starting to swell. It was when we found her left knee hot and swollen that we called the Doctor. She was started on oral steroids (prednisone) and after a few days, she was a new little girl. Feeling as we had no choice, we also started her on the oral Methotrexate.After being on oral steroids and Methotrexate for six months, we decided to wean her off of her steroids. During the six months that she was on the steroid, she was feeling great and her lab work was normal (for the first time ever). As soon as she was off of the steroid, her arthritis started to flare once again so we switched her to the injectable Methotrexate to see if that would help. She stayed on the injectable Methotrexate for another three months.

By June 2009, the arthritis was in her right jaw and she was diagnosed with TMJ. After an exam, the Dr. was also fearful that it was spreading into her hips. At this point we decided to add yet another medicine, Enbrel. This was another injectable medicine as well. She was up to around eight medicines a day by now and was getting two injections a week. The Enbrel was the answer to our prayers and after a couple of weeks, we finally had our little girl back. It took over 18 months to get her into remission with medications. She has had no signs of arthritis since the latter part of June 2009.If she continues to stay in remission for one year we will be able to wean her off of her meds. There is a 50% chance that the arthritis will come back. Because of Ayla's multiple joint involvement, the Dr's have told us that she has only a 30% chance of going into remission without meds. It is likely that she will carry this into adulthood, however, we do not know what the future holds, there is only one person who does and we will trust in him and we will deal with whatever hand life deals us one day at a time. We will always stay hopeful that she will beat this.As parents, we strive to be the best advocates we can for our daughter. Most people do not know that "Kids Can Get Arthritis Too". It is our mission to raise awareness for this disease.There is still much research that needs to be done so maybe one day our kids will not have to suffer with this. Below are a few articles that Ayla has been in regarding her Jra.


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Online "Therapy Times" Article

If you have made it this far, thank you so much for reading "Ayla's Story". It really means alot to me! If your child has JRA or if you yourself have RA, I would love to hear from you!

Have a great weekend!

Feb 8, 2010

Who Remember's these Toys?

This was my husband's fisher price farm house from when he was little. Okay I am showing my age here but I am thinking it was in the 1970's.....

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and this is Brennan's Fisher Price farm house that he got as a birthday gift last year. When John saw this he had to get it. It is the new version of the "old" farm house.

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I have to say that the kids still play with the "old" version more. Surprisingly, it is still in working condition. The door still opens and it still has the "moo" sound...haha...and it is much bigger too. So now Fisher Price is duplicating the toys that we played with way back when..lol
For some reason, it is neat to see your children playing with the toys that you played with as a child! Oh and Fisher Price has figured that out, and they are going to make you pay triple than what it is worth just because they know us parents can not resist!!!!

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We were at Target a couple of weeks ago and we found these.....Remember the classic teaching clock?

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and the Two Tune Television?

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and the pull toy Chatter Telephone?

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Yes, I remember them all! We almost bought them for the kids but we finally came to our senses knowing that they would never get played with. It is neat to see the "older" toys make their debut again. So I am too old or do any of you remember these too? I am probably going to be sorry I asked that, I may not want to know the answer!!!!

Feb 6, 2010

Catching up and some Blog Awards *UPDATED*

I hope everyone is having a great weekend. We have had some snow here this weekend so we are just taking it easy hanging at home! Last night we bought the kids the first Chipmunks movie and watched it while we ate Pizza!! The movie was so cute and the kids really liked it. Ayla cried when it went off and so we put it back on..lol. This morning John and Ayla went out for a little bit while I cleaned house and he brought me back the cutest surprise, I will post pictures later!! He's the best!

Okay here is the surprise John got to me today!

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A pair of black coach tennis shoes! Yeah... these are so cute and he know's I never buy anything for myself so I am excited to wear these this spring/summer!! Oh and is if that was not enough, he also bought me some "hope in a jar" because he read on my last post that I was out of it. He said he called around everywhere at work on Friday to try and find it for me! He is so good to me, I am blessed beyond meausure! Thank you honey! Oh and by the way he bought the shoes at Marshall's at a great price! I also have had several people ask me about Ayla's red and pink outfit she had on in a previous post, I got it at Naartjie earlier this year when I was in Louisville for the day. They also have a website, I just bought Brennan an oufit from there last week. They are always having great sales and on Tuesday's they have a mystery outfit which is very cheap!

Kaleb had a Dr's appointment on Wednesday and his x-ray actually looked worse than the first one. We are trying a different brace for one week and if that doesn't work then he will have to have surgery some time next week. He only went to school a couple of half days last week, every time he went he would call me saying he was in too much pain to stay so I had to go and get him. I feel so bad for him, he is getting a little depressed because he can not do anything. So please remember him in your prayers. I have been helping him with his homework so I feel like I am in school again!!

I have a couple of blog awards that I have received lately. I am so behind on this so I am trying to catch up. I actually have so many posts that are in draft right now, I just never have the time to finish them. I am also in the process of getting a blog makeover and I can not wait! I have been blogging for two years now so I think it is LONG overdue! Stephanie at Dirt and Lace is doing my makeover and I am so excited. John is even getting in on the action and helping me! And in honor of my new blog makeover (and getting ready to hit my 200th post), I am going to have a giveaway very soon!! I am so excited and you all will LOVE the giveaway especially those of you who have little girls!! As soon as I get all of the details together, I will let everyone know!

Okay on to my blog awards. This first award, the "Sugar Doll" award was given to me by Christy Rose over at "The Secret Life of An American Wife and Mom". Christy is an amazing person and mother to FIVE children. Yes, she is my hero! Christy loves the lord with all of her heart and she is a great inspiration to me. Christy you are definitely a "Sugar Doll" and thank you so much for my very FIRST award. Now go over and meet Christy, you will be so glad you did!

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The rules of getting an award is you must tell ten random facts about yourself and then pass the award on to some of your bloggy friends. They then continue to pass it on. I think it says twelve friends, but I am going to split mine up between both awards! I guess I am not one for following the rules..hehe

So I would love to pass the "Sugar Doll" award on to

Amie at "Hansen Happenings" Amie was my very FIRST bloggy friend, she is a great mother to two beautiful boys and an AWESOME photographer!

Katie over at "Life in the Fulmer Lane", I met Katie several weeks ago, she is so funny and her posts ALWAYS bring a smile to my face. She reminds me of my little sister, she is definitely a Sugar doll!!

Maria over at "Two Hearts made Four". Maria is awesome, you will love her!

Sara at "Just Inspired". I think Sara is the only othe blogger in WV...lol. Go and give her a shout out!!

Stephanie over at "Dirt and Lace". Stephanie is a sweetie, she has two little ones like myself, and she is doing my new blog make over. Go see her and if you need a makeover she is the person to see!

Brandi over at " The Borchardt Birdies". I found Brandi's blog a few weeks ago and I enjoy it so much. She is so adorable and so sweet!

The second Award is the "Sunshine Award", it was given to me by Maria over at "Two Hearts Made Four". Maria is a beautiful person inside and out, she is as sweet as can be and by getting to know one another, we have realized how much we both have in common. We both have a two and three year old, so we can definitely relate in that department! Thank you Maria for this award, you definitely are a ray of "SUNSHINE" my dear!


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I would like to pass the "SunShine" award on to...

Whitney over at "Treasures from our Family". Whitney is awesome, she has two beautiful little girls. I know you will love her blog!

Julie at "Wife.MoM.Nurse." Julie is a wife, mom and nurse..lol. Her blog is wonderful. She has the best stories EVER. I love keeping up with Julie.

Theresa over at "Grammy Girlfriend". Theresa is wonderful, I love reading her blog, she is a beautiful person with a sweet spirit!

Maria over at "Beautiful Life". Maria is one of my newest "bloggy friends". Like the title of her blog, she is Beautiful and I mean in every way. Go and read her blog and you will find out why!!

Heather at "Step Inside". Heather is the the kindest, sweetest and most caring person. Her blog is another inspiration to me!

Thanks girls, you ALL are great. I know some of you will probably not have enough time to follow through with the award, but that is okay, It took me all afternoon just to type this post out..lol. I just wanted to pass these awards on to you anyway because I do consider you all "bloggy friends".

Okay and now for ten "fun" random facts...let's see......
1. I love popcorn and m&m's. Plain not Peanut!
2. I am obsessed with cleaning, I clean all the time.
3. I dislike cooking and I am horrible at it, although I do love to bake!
4. I love the warm weather, my favorite place is the beach!
5. I put myself through college as a single mom while working full and part time.
6. I love beauty products (as I am sure you all know by now) and would buy them all the time if I could!
7. I sanitize everything, esp since my daughter has a weakened immune system.. clorox wipes are my best friend!
8. I met my husband at work, we went out on a date two months after I started, we were engaged a year later, and the rest is history!!
9. I have learned in life that "true" friends are hard to find...
10. Last but definitely not least, I Thank God everyday for his grace and mercy as I need it EVERYDAY. I am so thankful to the Lord for saving me and am continually amazed at the love and mercy he has given me!!

Feb 4, 2010

Favorite Beauty Products!

This Friday the topic for Show Us Your Life at Kelly's Korner is, " Favorite Beauty Products". Yeah, my favorite thing. I know I have said it before, but I am a beauty product junkie. I have always loved makeup and skin care products and hair products..etc. I have tried just about everything I think!!


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For skin care, I use Philosophy products. I love their moisturizing cream called "Hope in a Jar" after only one use, I could tell a difference in my skin, from that point on, I was hooked. Like right now I am out of this and I can tell a huge difference. I started using a clinque moisturizer that I have and my skin is already breaking out and it's just not the same! I also use Philosophy's facial cleanser called, " Purity made Simple". This is a great gentle cleanser that literally melts away makeup, dirt, etc and it is great for sensitive skin. I have used many more skin care products from Philosophy but these are just a couple of my favorites. They also have great fragrances, "Amazing Grace", and their Shower Gels are the BEST in my opinion!

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"hope in a jar is a world-famous, daily facial moisturizer originally created for the medical market to help reduce the appearance of wrinkles, skin discoloration, rough texture and dehydration. hope in a jar is an award-winning facial skin care cream loaded with antioxidants in a unique soufflé texture. it hydrates the skin to reduce dryness as it gently exfoliates to leave skin smoother, healthier and more radiant."

Okay first of all the ONLY makeup I use is Bare Escentuals (Bare Minerals). I have been using this for at least six years now and I will never use anything else, especially for foundation. I can't even imagine using a liquid foundation now. It is so healthy for your skin with no chemicals etc.. and the coverage is awesome! I have both of my sisters using it now and at least three girls at work! I work in surgery so even with wearing a mask all day, the makeup looks great and stays on all day! I also use their eye shadows, blushes and all over face radiance's. The all over face radiance colors are awesome, they make your face glow. This is something that I apply after I have all of my makeup on! Another great thing about this product is it LASTS FOREVER. Seriously I have eye shadows from five years ago! Philosophy also has a great mineral makeup that I also use, It is called the Supernatural, it is a great foundation!


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Okay, I am always on the look out for a great eyeliner. Right now my favorite is the 24 7 eyeliner by Urban Decay. It does not smudge and it really does stay on all day!! Bare minerals just came out with a stick eyeliner so I can not wait to use it. My sister already has it and she loves it!!

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Glide on color that stays put for the duration of your non-stop, on-the-go day! These cushiony, creamy eye pencils deliver powerful, vibrant color that slides on smooth and stays soft and creamy for blending (about 30 seconds), then dries to a long-lasting finish that won't budge. Line eyes with a hint of color or go for the full artistic, multi-hued effect. Truly inspired, these pencils go all day and all night. (they really do!)

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I swear I have found the Holy Grail of Mascaras. I have tried every brand from the most expensive to the cheapest. By far my favorite is "lash stylist" by Maybelline. Yes people my favorite mascara is only six dollars! I love, love, love this Mascara and if you are looking to try something new, please try this one, I promise you, you will love it! I like the brush, it is a little comb that separates and defines your eyelashes... it also thickens and lengthens as well! You can not go wrong with this one!
Oh, and I always have to curl my eyelashes, this is a must for me!!

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I like to wear alot of lip glosses, my favorite right now is a long lasting Kiss and Stay lipgloss from Rimmel. The glosses themselves are some of the best long staying glosses I've tried. Unlike everything else, this gloss does not give the super dry feeling that I get with every other long stay gloss. It is just like a regular gloss to apply. Its the same routine, you apply the color first and the shimmer transparent gloss on top of it. It seriously stays on for hours together ! It does not wash off with water. I personally love the color "nude" in this gloss! You can get this at any drugstore!

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Okay, well I think I have covered most of my favorite beauty products. Trust me there are alot more..lol, but I do not want to bore you to death, so this will have to do for now. I didn't even get to my favorite hair products, that will have to be another post!! I am so excited to read all of the posts from this week, I am sure that I will find some more amazing beauty products that I just can't live without!!!

Happy Friday Everyone, have a great weekend!

Feb 3, 2010

Double Trouble

My Children are "losing it" at the ripe young age of two and three. This morning as I was washing the dishes I heard the kids in Brennan's room just laughing and singing. As I listened more closely, I recognized that they were singing "Happy Birthday". So I continue to clean in the kitchen and I continue to hear them sing and laugh. At one point they are laughing so hard that I had to go and check out what they were doing. Okay this is the scene, Brennan is sitting on the floor with no clothes or diaper on and Ayla is sitting across from him with a birthday hat on and they are singing hysterically, "Happy birthday to you..hehehe, happy birthday to you..hehehe, happy birthday dear pee pee", happy birthday to you". Yes that's right, you heard me right!

I immediately told them that they should not be singing happy birthday to you know Brennan's pee pee all while trying to keep a straight face. I preceded to put Brennan's diaper and clothes back on and dared them to take his clothes off again.

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A little later as I was changing Brennan's diaper, he started singing the happy birthday pee pee song AGAIN.... Oh my word, what is it with my kids? Someone needs to tell them that you really DO NOT have to sing happy birthday in your "birthday suit"!!!!

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and while they are at it, they should tell Brennan that PINK is NOT his color!!


Feb 1, 2010

A Better Weekend

Yes, I am happy to report that my weekend went much better than my week!! By Sunday I was feeling "normal" again..lol. We did not do much this weekend, we are big basketball fans so on Saturday we stayed home and cheered on the Mountaineers who defeated Louisville by only three points in the last couple of minutes. What a great game!...GO EERS!!!


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Saturday evening we went to Sam's for a couple of things and Ayla somehow spotted a Chipmunks cd and HAD TO HAVE IT! It is the sound track from the Chipmunk movie that is out now. I kept explaining to her that it was a MUSIC cd and NOT a movie. She said that was okay and so of course we bought it for her. I had the idea that maybe we should go to Target and get her a portable cd player with headphones so we DID NOT have to listen to the Chipmunks over and over...lol. While we were at Target she spotted the Kids Bopz cd that is playing on commercials so guess what, yes we got that too. I know, she is so spoiled!

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So she LOVES, LOVES, her cd's and cd player, she carries it everywhere and she actually fell asleep listening to it on Sunday. John was worried that she might wrap the cord around her neck (only John hehe) so he bought her a little cheap cd player on Sunday evening. So now we have heard the "Chipettes" sing Beyoncee's "All The Single Ladies" about a gazillion times. She LOVES this song and will not listen to anything else.


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On Sunday my friend Summer and I went to a neighbors baby shower and I thought it was funny because we both won a game where you had to figure out the correct nursery rhyme by descriptions that they had...yes, that is what having a three year old does for you. Knowing all of the nursery rhymes-CHECK!! I particularly loved this baby shower because the prizes were all "beauty products". The mom of the girl (that is pregnant) owns her own beauty saloon. So I was trying so hard to win a prize. Finally at the end everyone started giving me their baby pins so I could win a game and get a prize. You know the game where every time someone says "baby", you take their pin. So I won and I got some Biolage hair styling gel. Yeah... see it doesn't take much to make me happy!!

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Sunday evening I watched the Grammy's and recorded the Duggars. So I was watching the Grammy's and wondering if I am the only person on this planet that thinks that Taylor Swift does not sing that well. Okay, I do like Taylor Swift but I just don't think she can sing "live" very well AT ALL. Seriously ya'll, I felt horrible for her last night. I love her cd's and I think she is a doll but last night was NOT her night. Oh my word and what about Pink? She did a whole circus act performance where she was hanging upside down singing and to make matters worse, she was nearly naked. Oh and she was also dripping wet with water so when she was twirling around water was flying everywhere. All I could think was that I would be totally ticked off if I was sitting there getting wet in my nice, expensive, Grammy attire. Lastly, Lady Gaga, one word-weird. I swear that lady lives in her own little world. Okay enough said!

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After the Grammy's I watched the Duggars. This was the new episode where Michelle had her 19th baby at 25 weeks. She had a little girl who they named Josie, she weighed a little over a pound. Okay I was balling my eyes out at the end when all of the kids went in to visit little Josie. I love the Duggar's, I think they are an awesome family! I was glad to hear after the show that little Josie is doing well, she is stable in the NICU and she is up to two pounds. That made me so happy!
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Today I took Ayla to get her lab work done. Because of the medicines that she is on, she has to have it checked every eight weeks. She normally does pretty well with it especially considering we have been doing this since she has been eighteen months old. Well today, as soon as I put the numbing cream on her arms she started crying. Then when I pulled into the hospital parking lot she started crying, she basically cried the whole entire time we were there. She kept saying, "don't do it, not today". John and I had to hold her down while they drew her blood. She was crying so hard she almost made herself sick. It broke my heart, I guess now that she is getting older, she is understanding more of what is going on. So after that, I took her out to lunch and then bought her a slushee. She was supposed to get her two injections tonight but we are going to wait until tomorrow because we didn't want to put her through that again tonight.


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This is Ayla before we left today. Notice that she is not at all happy but she did remember to take her cd player with her!!

Kaleb is still hanging in there. He went to school for half of a day today but he said he was miserable. I didn't want him to go at all but he insisted. At least he did get his homework. He fractured his left shoulder, so it is in a sling. I was glad it wasn't his right shoulder until today when it JUST hit me that he is LEFT handed! He doesn't know how he is going to write yet... poor thing, I feel so bad for him.

Okay, I think I have talked enough. Can you tell that I am at home all day with no adult conversation..lol. Hope everyone has a GREAT week! Now, off to watch the Bachelor!!


Jan 28, 2010

Not a Good Week

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It started on Monday when I started feeling sick to my stomach and just not feeling like myself, on Tuesday I was a little worse, still sick to my stomach with a headache that would not give up and my body was aching all over, on Wednesday I basically watched the kids while lying on the couch for most of the day, wishing I could have a sick day! Ayla was not thrilled with the idea of making lunch, breakfast and dinner for herself and Brennan, so I did have to drag my aching body off of the couch to do that! Trust me, they took full advantage of my sickness... I will have proof in later posts..lol! To make matters worse, John was on call Monday and Tuesday and worked late both days ....on Wednesday evening John decided to take the kids out for a little bit so I could have some time by myself. Kaleb was skiing with his school so I had the perfect opportunity to get a little rest and relaxation. Until.....


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The phone rang and Kaleb's number popped up on my screen, I got a bad feeling right away that something was not right because it was early and he usually does not call until he is on his way home. I answered the phone to a girl saying Kaleb needs to talk to you. Kaleb gets on the phone and says, "Mom I think I broke something". My heart sank, trying not to panic, "what do you mean, are you okay? He continued to tell me that he had an accident and landed on his shoulder the wrong way and could not move his arm. Once they got him inside and evaluated him, they said that his bone (clavicle) was definitely protruding from under his skin. Of course I am in bed feeling like I have been hit with a sledge hammer feeling terrible that I could not be there for my son. They decided to end the ski trip early and head back home so we can take Kaleb to the hospital.


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It took an hour and a half for him to get home. John had called a friend of ours and arranged to take Kaleb straight in for an x ray when he got home. Some shoulder fractures require surgery right away but 90% of them only require immoblization of your arm in a sling for 6 to 8 weeks. Kaleb's fracture does not require surgery at this time but in a couple of weeks if it is not healing like it is supposed to then he may have to have surgery. Being an OR nurse, I know this is one of the most painful fractures you can have. With that being said, he is being a trooper. We are giving him his pain meds consistently so he will not be in pain. He is pretty bummed because he was getting ready to go snowboarding in Colorado with Mamaw Sandy in two weeks and he only got to go on two ski trips with his school. I know things could always be worse and I am very thankful that they are not! So we are praying for a quick recovery for Kaleb and hoping that his fracture heals properly so he does not have to have surgery.

Today is the first day that I have felt more like myself. My stomach is still bothering me but at least my headache is gone and I dont feel like I have been ran over by a mac truck..lol..Im sure a lot of it is due to stress as well, I worried about Kaleb all night and was up frequently checking on him. So, I am hoping the weekend goes much better than my week and that my sickness does not spread to anyone else!

What a week! Oh, and I forgot to mention that Brennan is getting new teeth in and has been up several nights this week, he just grinds his teeth over and over...last night he was up from 1:30 until 5:30, so throw almost no sleep on top of everything else...SWEET!! Okay, sorry for complaining... but sometimes you just have to do it!!

I hope everyone has a GREAT weekend, I know I am looking forward to one!!!!